| Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: On vacation, I put up my OOO message and am truly unreachable to co-workers, but my husband checks his email and Teams several times a day and encourages his co-workers to text him to keep him updated. It feels like his work phone and laptop are always dinging. I have become resentful. Our jobs are similar, by the way, and nothing at his workplace is ever so urgent that he can’t take care of it on the next business day. It’s just a difference in the way we approach our days off. I find that it interferes with our quality time, but I’m not sure whether it’s an overstep to request that he stop doing this. — OOO Answer this week’s reader question Here's your chance to channel your inner Carolyn Hax and respond to a reader question. | 
