I’m now in a happy and committed LTR with my bed. But, it took me a while to get over my internalized guilt whenever I slept in.
We know that sleep matters. Your brain and body need those seven-to-nine hours to repair cells, consolidate memories, balance hormones, and keep you from turning into Kendall Roy outside a board room, yelling about being the eldest boy.
It’s all about supporting the parasympathetic nervous system, which starts in your brainstem and goes down your spine to your sacrum. It’s in charge of “resting and digesting” (that gut-to-brain connection is strong) –– meaning, shifting your body out of go-go-go and into R&R mode.
The basics of good sleep never change much: Keep a consistent bedtime, make your bedroom a calm space, and cut down on alcohol.
That said, I’ve been doing some digging and managed to round up a few actually new tricks to make falling (and staying) asleep easier…
Done? If the risk age for your heart is biologically older than your calendar age, you’re in a not-so-exclusive club that includes most Americans.
The basics… Being off by one or two biological years is no big deal. But, if your heart is five or 10+ years ahead, check in with your GP to talk through interventions for things like high blood pressure or LDL (“bad” cholesterol).
You can probably guess what the other best practices are: Diet, exercise, stress management, and limiting how much alcohol you’re drinking. No Flamin’ Hot anything.
It’s go time… In your 30s and 40s, hidden risk factors like chronic stress and disrupted sleep start quietly reshaping your heart’s future — stiffening blood vessels, raising blood pressure, and pushing cholesterol into a riskier range.
And, speaking of stress… Chronic stress and anxiety cut down on blood flow to the heart, elevate your blood pressure and heart rate, and keep your cortisol levels high. Over time, that can speed the buildup of plaque in your arteries. If this is you, it’s time to slow down and take care of yourself. (We know it’s easier said than done.)
Bad news first: Some of our favorite fruits and veggies — like blueberries and green beans — can come with a harmful level of pesticide residue. When that produce is imported, it may even carry chemicals banned in the US.
Now, the good news: You don’t need fancy tools, special sprays, or an exorcism, to get them off. Just add 1 teaspoon of baking soda to about two cups of water, and let your fruits or veggies take a 15-minute soak before you eat or add to a salad.
We're here with strong opinions, loosely held.
We’re all for committing to a new habit, but wellness -maxxing feels like playing the health version of “Love Island” where everyone’s competing to see who can go the hardest.
Here are our takes on the biggest “-maxxes” of the summer…
Lawful evil: Cowmaxxing. Bone broth? Sure. We draw the line at eating this.
Chaotic good: Bob the Builder-maxxing. We’re all for getting our to-do lists done. But don’t underestimate the singular bliss of conquering a Kallax by yourself.
We love a home-cooked meal, but we do *not* love the time it takes to make it. That’s why we always have these clever cooking gadgets on hand. They make the more annoying prep tasks much more palatable (i.e., no more garlic-scented fingers), so you’ll get to the table stress-free.
If applying body lotion after showering is the bane of your existence, use this in-shower treatment. It's packed with hydrating jojoba oil, coconut oil, and shea butter, so you can forgo moisturizer.
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