Ask the Therapist: My Friend Ghosted Me. But Am I the Jerk?
Our Ask the Therapist columnist, Lori Gottlieb, advises a reader who is realizing his friends may find his personality hard to take.
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Ask the Therapist

September 11, 2025, 5:17 a.m. Eastern time

Lori Gottlieb, a psychotherapist and best-selling author, offers readers advice on life's tough questions.

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My Friend Ghosted Me. But Am I the Jerk?

Our Ask the Therapist columnist, Lori Gottlieb, advises a reader who is realizing his friends may find his personality hard to take.

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