Dear Allison and Amy Rose,
I’m 40 years old. I live in a big city (Toronto). I am actively dating (but don’t have any good prospects). I have lots of hobbies — working out, hanging out with my dog, reading — and I have a compulsion to “finish” the internet every day. I travel a lot — I’ve been to 27 countries on my own and try to take a trip a month.
Even though I have a very full life, I’m the only single person in my friend group (and not interested in having kids), and I feel like I’m constantly being left out and left behind.