Good morning. Melissa Kirsch is taking the day off. Pinch-hitting is Jancee Dunn, the host of our Well newsletter (sign up here to get it delivered to your inbox). She wants to take you for a walk.
Walk this way
Fall is prime walking season: the cooling air, the changing colors. I have made a vow to take a good, substantial walk every day until hibernation season kicks in. Sometimes I have to be creative to get myself out the door. So I’ve come up with some go-to themes for my walks. For example:
WalktivitySometimes I simply ask myself: Can I turn this activity into a walk? My boss and I have done our weekly check-in walking around the block outside the office. Next week I’ve scheduled a catch-up call with a former teacher who lives in another state, and I plan to do it while on the move. When I have time, I walk to the post office instead of driving. I used to meet a friend I’ve known since the Clinton administration for regular lunch dates. After she canceled several times in a row, I (gently) asked what was up. She explained that money was tight and she just couldn’t swing eating out that much anymore. So I proposed a walk instead. Our meandering walk-and-talks, it turns out, are much livelier than sitting in a restaurant. I’ve floated this idea to a few other friends in lieu of dates with price tags; no one has refused me yet. It’s good for youWalking has been shown to lower risk for many types of cancer and heart disease. Research suggests it can ease lower back pain, and also build and maintain strong bones. And if you’re seeking connection, a walk is a low-key way to put yourself out there and meet people. I’ve found that if someone has a dog or a young child, it’s particularly easy to strike up a chat. When I encounter a pup, I might ask, “Is your dog usually this beautifully behaved?” Inevitably, the reply will be “God, no,” followed by a tale of mayhem. I’ve found that toddlers crave power and respect; greeting them with “sir” or “madam” and a slight bow often thrills them. Or I might ask the child’s opinion on what I should have for my next meal (chicken nuggets and pizza are the front-runners). I love that walking is accessible for all ages. I find I can extract more information from my teenager on a long ramble, and indeed there is research suggesting communication is easier when you’re walking side by side, with little eye contact, rather than face to face. My father is 84 and likes to drop by my place for lunch. We used to sit in the kitchen and chat after eating. Now, I try to coax him outside for a stroll. Last week, he resisted because it was rainy, so I told him I wouldn’t divulge a delicious piece of family gossip unless we did a few laps around the block. Dad likes to pretend that he’s above gossip, but he’s not. His mouth pursed in disapproval, he stood up, put on his cap and headed for the door.
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The U.S. Open finals: Could this finally be the year? Ben Shelton will have the crowd in Flushing, Queens, behind him tomorrow as he looks to become the first American man in 23 years to win the country’s premier tennis tournament. Of course, it won’t be easy to get past Alexander Zverev, who has been surging ever since he won the French Open in June. On the women’s side, today’s final will be a blockbuster showdown between the world’s new No. 1 ranked player (Elena Rybakina) and the two-time defending champion (Aryna Sabalenka). It starts at 4 p.m. Eastern.
Easy Apple TartThis weekend is Rosh Hashana, the Jewish New Year, when apples and honey are traditional parts of the menu. For something a little different, why not try David Tanis’s recipe for an easy apple tart, made with phyllo dough, marmalade and gently spiced apples? He drizzles it all with a bit of honey right before serving. To make it slightly richer, substitute puff pastry for the phyllo. Either way, it will be a glossy, golden finish to your meal.
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