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Hey Ala,
A few years ago, I brought on a senior leader for Founder OS.
He was a smart guy - he had all the experience and said all the right things.
Two weeks in, he tells me: "Matt, I got this. You can loosen your grip now."
I was at Esalen doing an artist retreat in Big Sur, California. Unplugging. Being present in nature.
So I thought, "Great. He's got it."
I loosened my grip.
Big mistake.
One week later, I came back to decisions I never would've approved. Actions that went completely against how we operate. Money spent on things that made zero sense.
Here's the thing… it wasn't his fault.
It was mine.
The Most Dangerous Piece of Business Advice
You've probably heard this before…
"Hire great people, then get out of their way."
It's complete bullshit.
You do NOT hire great people and immediately get out of their way.
When you're giving someone anything…
Whether it's a ghostwriter taking over your content, a social media manager handling your platforms, or a head of sales running a department…
You need to give them time to understand your operating system.
Not a few weeks. Months.
Because even great people STILL need time to see you make decisions.
They need to understand the why behind the what. They need to internalize your frameworks until they can think like you.
Otherwise, what happens is you delegate too early…
It doesn’t work…
You decide you’re the only one who can do it right.
And you end up more trapped in the business than you were before you tried to hire someone.
Playing The Hero Is A Trap
At Herb I was the hero.
The problem-solver. The one who could jump into any fire and "figure it out."
I was also fucking exhausted all the time.
Every decision came to me.
Every approval. Every question. Every problem.
My team wasn't incompetent. They were smart, capable people.
But they were paralyzed.
Because they didn't have the right systems.
They didn’t know what I was thinking.
The Carl Icahn Documentary That Changed Everything
One night, 5 years ago, I was watching a documentary about Carl Icahn (it’s called Icahn: The Restless Billionaire). Carl is worth over $5B and at one point owned 10% of Apple.
My biggest epiphany from the film was: I need to view myself as an asset manager, not an employee of my own company.
I'd been operating like the world's highest-paid employee… doing everything myself, holding all the context in my head.
But asset managers?
They build systems and document processes. They create frameworks so others can operate the assets without them.
That's when you can finally remove yourself from operations…
After I watched the documentary, I made a commitment. A six-month plan to remove myself from Herb's daily operations.
A plan to turn 40 hours a week… into less than an hour a month over time.
How I Built My Escape Plan
Here's what I did first.
I tracked everything.
Every decision I made. Every approval I gave. Every meeting I took.
I wrote it all down for two weeks straight.
The result was a brutal reality check.
I was making the same decisions over and over. Answering the same questions every day.
The good news? Most of what I did was repeatable. Which meant it could be systemized.
For each repeating decision, I created a simple framework:
I used simple Google Docs. Nothing fancy (I hate Notion).
"Here's how I decide which brand partnerships to say yes to."
"Here's how I evaluate content before it ships."
I turned my brain into operating manuals.
Next, I empowered the team.
I did NOT just dump the operating manuals on them and walk away after two weeks.
I trained them deliberately, over time. We walked through real decisions together.
Only after I had trained them on my operating system did I step back.
At first, they'd still ask for approval. I'd ask, "What does the Standard Operating Procedure (SOP) say?"
They'd walk through it. Make the call. And I'd support their decision even if I would've chosen differently.
Because here's the thing:
An 80% decision made by your team is better than a 100% decision stuck in your head.
Your job isn't to make every decision.
Your job is to give your team the right frameworks so they can make decisions without you.
Finally, the moment of truth.
I went on a two-week trip. Completely offline.
Herb kept running. Content shipped. Deals closed. Problems got solved.
When I got back: "How'd it go?"
They barely noticed I was gone.
I had gone from 60 hours per week to three hours every Monday.
Eventually, I worked my way down to less than that per month.
Welcome to Phase 2 of the Founder Journey:
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