Yesterday I told you about the 4 things women naturally respond to in a man:
- Safe.
- Special.
- Sexy.
- Selective.
That last one is where a LOT of good men get themselves into trouble.
You meet an attractive woman… and because she’s beautiful, you immediately start trying to win her.
You become extra agreeable, extra impressive, extra accommodating.
Basically, she gets the prize before she’s
done anything to earn it.
And women FEEL that.
Compare that to a man who thinks: “She’s attractive… cool. Now let me find out if I actually LIKE her.”
Whoa. Very different energy.
You ask question because you’re curious.
You listen because you want to know her.
You flirt because you’re enjoying yourself.
And the most important part? You’re choosing too.
That’s sexy.
Because women are deeply attracted to men who choose us… Instead of men who desperately need to be chosen.
See how to become that man here
You can want the girl. Just don’t hand her all the power because she happens to be pretty ;)
The BEST Female Friend You’ll Ever Have or Need,
Marni