Ask the Therapist: ‘Gentle Parenting’ Is Spoiling My Granddaughter. What Should I Do?
Her mother’s lack of discipline is turning the 10-year-old into a brat, and I’m worried about her future.
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March 13, 2025, 5:15 a.m. Eastern time

Lori Gottlieb, a psychotherapist and best-selling author, offers readers advice on life's tough questions.

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‘Gentle Parenting’ Is Spoiling My Granddaughter. What Should I Do?

Her mother’s lack of discipline is turning the 10-year-old into a brat, and I’m worried about her future.

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