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A few weeks ago, I wrote a story about a bar in Manchester which had been the victim of a theft - with one of its framed photos being stolen during service.

The picture in question was of an old Manchester Evening News article which surprised me in some ways, and sadly didn’t in others. Dating back to 1992, the story was about a woman who was turned away from a LGBTQ+ club night in the city because she didn’t ‘look gay enough’.

It was another realisation for me that there are some things which are still very much the same. Of course, things aren’t that extreme right now (for the time being at least), there are many recent times where people have been turned away from areas like the Gay Village.

In fact, I’ve had it myself where people I’ve been with - who could get away with appearing, on the basis of it all, straight - who have been told they can’t come into a LGBTQ+ venue.

And I do get it. These spaces do exist for a reason. We need the Gay Village, we need bars where we can be our authentic selves without judgement or fear of something happening to us (whether they truly 100% exist or not is another story for another day).

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

On the other side of the debate, I can also recall times when groups of Hen Do’s have taken over LGBTQ+ spaces and made myself and other clubbers feel like a spectacle, like we were being exhibited at a zoo for others to observe and amuse themselves with.

But these spaces also exist because we, as LGBTQ+ people, have faced discrimination and prejudice based on how we look, how we are perceived and how we act. Is doing the same to others really the solution?

I’m not here to say I have the all-important answer, because I absolutely do not. And there will never be something which works for everyone. But maybe we could start with steering away from how people look, and instead focus on how people act. Like, a drunken and disruptive person is exactly that whether they are straight, gay or anything else.

Whilst there are certain things that haven’t changed, I am glad we are further away from the days of having to recall famous lesbians at the door, which is what the woman in that 1992 article said she was made to do.

We’re just perhaps still not as far forward as we’d like to wish we were.

An extended version of this piece can be found on the M.E.N here. 
 
 
  
  
  
  
 
 
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