Build Professional Friendships That Last. Professional friendships aren’t a luxury—they’re a strategic advantage. In a world where trust, learning, and collaboration are essential, building genuine relationships at work can boost performance and well-being. Here’s how to develop an integrated approach. Lead with the personal. New business friendships form through shared values and identity, not utility. Don’t start with professional gain; find real common ground first. Friendships last when both people also benefit professionally, but that’s a

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Build Professional Friendships That Last

Professional friendships aren’t a luxury—they’re a strategic advantage. In a world where trust, learning, and collaboration are essential, building genuine relationships at work can boost performance and well-being. Here’s how to develop an integrated approach. 

Lead with the personal. New business friendships form through shared values and identity, not utility. Don’t start with professional gain; find real common ground first. Friendships last when both people also benefit professionally, but that’s a natural outcome, not a starting point. 

Rethink what friendship means. If your definition only includes deep confidants, you’re limiting potential. Broaden it to include people you simply like spending time with. This mindset shift increases the overlap between your social and professional circles, expanding both. 

Widen your view of relevance. Don’t dismiss personal contacts as professionally irrelevant. People in your life like friends, neighbors, and even family members can offer surprising insights, support, or connections. Be open to value from unexpected places. 

Give—and ask—without overthinking it. Favors strengthen bonds. Offer help when you can, and don’t hesitate to ask for guidance. Small acts of generosity can transform acquaintances into lasting friends and allies. 

 
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Don’t Underestimate the Value of Professional Friendships

by Paul Ingram

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Don’t Underestimate the Value of Professional Friendships

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