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After editing today’s story on AI, I sat down to write this note, planning to say something about my stubborn Luddite streak. I’m an AI holdout – not sure how to talk to ChatGPT, and hoping I can get away with that a little longer.
Of course, no sooner did I start typing than a notification popped up: Google Gemini offering to “help me write.”
AI is ubiquitous, whether we want it or not. The thought of people having an AI companion – a chatbot they turn to for emotional support, not just a quick factual question – still strikes me as a bit unreal. Yet 1 in 5 high-schoolers say they or someone they know has had a romantic relationship with AI.
In some ways, the appeal is easy to see: A chatbot is always there. It tends to take your side. Its support isn’t limited in the way real humans are, with competing responsibilities and relationships.
But that’s precisely what makes human love valuable, argues Oluwaseun Damilola Sanwoolu, a philosopher at the University of Kansas. We can’t be everything to everyone all the time. We have to choose. We have to accept that other people might not choose us.
That finitude makes love more meaningful, not less – a feature, not a bug, in tech-speak.
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