| We asked readers to channel their inner Carolyn Hax and answer this question. Some of the best responses are below. Dear Carolyn: We get lilac bushes, our neighbor gets lilac bushes. We put up an arch over the garden entrance, they hire the same guy to make one just like it for their yard. They copy our Christmas lights and our landscaping. Right now, there’s a guy over there with them pointing to our house and taking photos. What are they copying now? I know we can’t do anything about it, but just how annoyed are we allowed to be? Can we say something a little snarky — just once! — at some point? — The Original | 
