Carolyn Hax

(Nick Galifianakis for The Post)

Daughter’s mixed marriage unlocks her aunt’s ‘offensive views’

Adapted from an online discussion.

Dear Carolyn: My daughter married a minority person, and my sister often will absentmindedly reflect on her far-fetched, offensive views. My daughter is turned off to her, as am I. How do I keep the peace between them, or should I even try?

— Peacekeeper?

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